Subtitle on cover: 7 steps to saving your relationship. Includes index.

What is love, anyway? -- The six stages of a relationship -- Why arguing is good for your relationship -- How to have the right sort of arguments -- Do you both speak the same language of love? -- How to boost real intimacy -- Identity : does loving you stop me from being myself? -- Is it the relationship or something else? -- The theory of tipping points -- The six special skills of successful couples -- Having the "I love you, but" conversation/hearing the "I love you, but" confession -- Coping day to day -- Dealing with guilt -- How to truly bond again -- If worst comes to worst : making sense of endings -- How to fly high again.